“Right person…wrong time?”

POST DATE 5-28-24

When I faced my crippling fear of “wasting time”, I learned how wrong I was to view time as something I could possibly get wrong or waste. I realized what a gift time really is when we value it instead of judge it. Treat your present like a gift and watch how your life changes.

Time passes beyond our control. We don’t control how much of it we receive. We only control how we spend what we get.. When you learn what is yours and only yours to control, you become the master of what’s right for you. You FLOW with time instead of judge it or label it.

“Right person/Wrong time” brings me what ifs, anxiety and stuck-ness. If you believe something is only timed right when it lasts for all time, then you will likely feel anxious and out of time, most of the time.

Try this on and see if it feels different than “right person/wrong time”:

“This is the time for this person and me.”

If you’re choosing to spend your time with a person in a romantic relationship, please remember they are also spending their time with you. Imagine enjoying the time we choose each other without any judgement, fear or anxiety about the time we get. It’s beautiful to relate in that way with someone. It’s present minded. It’s a choice made intentionally. There’s no looking ahead to a different time because we always value the time we’re in.

“This is the time for this person and me” brings me peace and the ability to stay intentional in the present. It’s beautiful how much we can learn about ourselves, our needs and our desires with ANY amount of time spent with another person! We’ve got to stop robbing ourselves of our own timeline by labeling periods of it “wrong”. With every person we connect to, there are lessons, wounds and healing to be found. Is there really ever a wrong time to learn, heal and transform?