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Register for the Love Beyond Labels workshop in links! Learn practical tools to build emotional resilience and incorporate joy into your life.

Are you practicing now for the future you want? C

Are you practicing now for the future you want?

Come practice speaking your needs, upholding boundaries, and allowing emotions—in queer community!

This is your chance to start building the skills that lead to secure attachment, meaningful relationships, and deeper self-acceptance.

✨ Register now at the LINK IN BIO and start practicing for the outcomes you deserve.

#queerattachment #secureattachment #queertiktok #wlwtiktok #lesbians #selflove #queerjoy #anxious #avoidant

I asked her: What if your next breakdown could act

I asked her: What if your next breakdown could actually be your breakthrough?

🫶🏻What if you ‘allowed’ the emotion and got curious instead of judgmental?
🙏🏻Where could it lead you?
💫How deeply can you discover yourself? 💓What if you went within to find the answers?

She answered that she could at least try it and see how it goes. She sat with the pain and then slept through the night. Healing is about learning the strategies to move through the hard moments—not avoid them. It’s about allowing your emotions to do the work of the body! Decipher the message the emotion offers. Have you truly processed it if you didn’t receive the message?

✨ Ready to continue your journey? Let’s talk. Your breakthrough is waiting. Let’s discover the path to get there. You are worth the time and energy required to move and release emotions. 💗

#Breakthrough #queerattachment #SecureAttachment #anxiousattachment #EmotionalGrowth #QueerHealing #QueerJoy #lqbtq #wlwcouple #coach #lesbians

LIVE on TT tonight with @amber_mccrea Be sure to f

LIVE on TT tonight with @amber_mccrea Be sure to follow @queerlyattached and @amberlmccrea on TT. Coach Amber and I met on her podcast “Connection Over Perfection”. Can’t wait to pick up where we left off with Queer Attachment Trauma! #queerattachment #queerjoy #lgbtq #lesbiansofig #attachmentstyles

Breakdowns are sometimes just the beginning of bre

Breakdowns are sometimes just the beginning of breakthroughs. Allow the emotions, they want to release. YOU are worth finding out what’s on the other side of this emotion. What’s the message?
#selflove #queerattachment #queerhealing #trauma #breakthrough #alignment #lesbians #attunement #emotional #divinefeminine

Anxious spiral, anyone?😵‍💫 Texting, checki

Anxious spiral, anyone?😵‍💫
Texting, checking, overthinking, proving, refreshing... it’s exhausting. If this feels a little too relatable, you’re not alone!
These patterns are attempts at self soothing when your fear of rejection and abandonment pops up! It’s not your fault, it’s just your responsibility to manage.
🙏🏻Ready to break free from the overthinking cycle and build secure patterns? Start by taking the free attachment quiz on my website today! 🔗LINK IN BIO
#queerattachment #AttachmentStyles #secure #spiral #relationships #queerjoy #queerhealing #selflove #lesbians #queerpride #anxiousattachment

Anxious queers, I see you. 👀 You’re not alone

Anxious queers, I see you. 👀 You’re not alone in those attachment spirals—been there, healed that. 💖 It requires a courageous peek at the thing that scares us most…our fear of abandonment. We’ve built up some rock solid defenses against that fear. And we call those defenses, strategies and patterns our “attachment style”.

Ready to understand your patterns and take the first step toward secure connections? Let’s find out your attachment style first!

✨ Take the free attachment quiz on my website now! 🌈 LINK IN BIO.

#queerattachment #AttachmentStyles #anxiousattachment #queerjoy #selflove #QueerHealing #lesbians #wlwpride

Day 2 of the Queer Joy Summit is all about healing

Day 2 of the Queer Joy Summit is all about healing 🌈✨, and my presentation, Queer Attachment Trauma: The Thief of Queer Joy, is live today!

I’m diving into how attachment trauma impacts our joy, relationships, and sense of self—and how we can reclaim it.

Don’t forget to upgrade to the Queer Joy Booster to unlock exclusive access to my virtual workshop in December. Love Beyond Labels: Understanding Queer Attachment Trauma. Our first session begins December 3rd, and I can’t wait to see you there!

Queer Joy is your right. Claim it. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💙
#QueerJoy #QueerAttachment #queerhealing #lesbians #selflove #wlw #selflove #selfacceptance

I’m Kyleigh and I help people address their quee

I’m Kyleigh and I help people address their queer attachment trauma and become securely attached. Ready to stop searching and start becoming? Let’s do this together because queer community encourages queer joy! This week is the Queer Joy Summit. A free online summit celebrating our right to be ourselves. My presentation is on queer attachment trauma as the thief of queer joy. All the details to register are at the link in my bio! #queerjoy #queerattachment #lesbiansupport #comingout #wlw #secureattachment

I’m Kyleigh and I help people address queer atta

I’m Kyleigh and I help people address queer attachment trauma in order to build secure relationships with self and others. Check out the Queer Joy Summit going on right now. A FREE online resource with over 20 queer speakers celebrating our right to be ourselves. My presentation is on queer attachment trauma as the thief of queer joy. ✨All the details to register are at the link in my bio.✨ #queer #election2024 #queerattachment #wlwcouple #queerjoy #queercommunity #lesbians #existence

Last night, listening to children sing about the f

Last night, listening to children sing about the future in a room full of MAGA. Hard work is good work and we’ve got plenty to do!! Register at the link in bio for your FREE Queer Joy Summit! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️Choose joy. Choose joyful work. #election2024 #kamalaharris2024 #queerjoy #mentalhealthmatters #choosejoy #lesbians #wlw

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🙏🏻✨There are

🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🙏🏻✨There are so many emotions right now. So many it’s difficult to name. It might feel scary to try and sit with them all. But what if you gave space for each one? It can be a sacred sitting with self, to allow and notice our body speaking to us with emotions. Feelings and sensations. It’s the language of the body. We rush to make meaning before we’ve even learned the message.

Sit. Allow. Notice. Feel. Validate. Hold off on logic for now. We must feel. And we must choose which emotions to memorize and root in. I choose Joy. I want to become so familiar with Joy and peace.

This Queer Joy Summit has arrived right on time. It’s FOR YOU and it’s FOR FREE! We offer a community to learn and grow amongst. Queer community fosters queer healing! Registration 🔗 in bio #queerjoysummit #queerattachment #lesbians #wlw #queerjoy #feelings #relationships

Your Queer Attachment Trauma is likely triggered a

Your Queer Attachment Trauma is likely triggered after these election results. Queer pain will feel lonely and burdensome. This attachment trauma is the thief of our queer joy. ***LINK IN BIO*** Join me at the FREE QUEER JOY SUMMIT to learn tips and strategies to reclaim your joy. #queerattachment #queerjoy #election2024 #lesbians #wlw #attachmentstyle #harris

I’m so excited to announce that I’ll be speaki

I’m so excited to announce that I’ll be speaking at the FREE Queer Joy Summit! Join me and a lineup of incredible queer voices as we dive into tips and strategies to bring more joy, connection, and authenticity into our lives. ✨LINK IN BIO
What’s Included: 20+ sessions full of practical tips, ideas, and a ton of inspiration to help us all live more joyfully! And it’s all FREE! I’d love to see you there—grab your spot through my link which helps support my work with Queerly Attached 🙏🏻 https://queerlyattached—colettedalton.thrivecart.com/queer-joy-booster/
Let’s fill our lives with more joy! 💖 #QueerAttachment #QueerJoySummit #FindYourJoy #lesbians #queerhealing #queercommunity

Discover your worth from within not from them! Whe

Discover your worth from within not from them! When we start embracing our own value and determining our own worth, we show up for ourselves. We may be anxious, avoidant or a bit of both! Those strategies run through us like patterns because they have worked! You’re still here right? But we aren’t just seeking survival in our relationships. We want fulfilling connection.
Ready to dive deeper? Book your ATTACHMENT ASSESSMENT with me today and unlock the healing power of self-discovery!
#queerlove #wlw #lesbiansofig
#selfworth #anxiousattachment
#AttachmentStyles #queerattachment

PART 2! FEELING MY FEELINGS IN REAL…REEL! I stay

PART 2! FEELING MY FEELINGS IN REAL…REEL! I stay long winded 😎 here’s the end you don’t want to miss! Good news at the end! 🌈 We have to FEEL TO HEAL. It’s a moment to moment practice! And it saves me so.much.time.and.energy. #mentalhealthmatters #feelings #emotions #queerpride #queerattachment #disability #lesbian #wlw #rainbow #secureattachment #feeltoheal #sitdontscript

Feeling My Feels In Real…Reel. It doesn’t get

Feeling My Feels In Real…Reel. It doesn’t get too ugly yall. Wait til the end!! Good news at the end! 🌈 We have to FEEL TO HEAL. It’s a moment to moment practice! And it saves me so.much.time.and.energy. #mentalhealthmatters #feelings #emotions #sapphic #dykes #queerattachment #disability #lesbian #wlw #rainbow #secureattachment #feeltoheal #sitdontscript

I remain grateful that one area I’ve never self

I remain grateful that one area I’ve never self abandoned is in my co-parenting relationship. It is of the utmost importance for our dynamic to be authentic, boundaried and without people pleasing. I’ve been sharing pretty openly on podcast interviews about my modern family. This was one of my most recent interviews, link in the bio! I ran this reel past said co-parent and he said “oh yeah! 😎 nice.” Glad we are still fam, B! “Without vulnerability you really can’t have authenticity. When you don’t have authenticity, you have a lot of room for confusion, chaos, assumptions. I just seek clarity.”—🏳️‍🌈Kyleigh Weathers #lesbian #introducingme #podcast #exmormon #queertiktok #wlw #queerattachment #uhaul #coparenting #anxiousattachment #conflict #attachment #lesbiansover40 #lateinlifelesbian🏳️‍🌈

Assumptions and resentment. Silent killers of conn

Assumptions and resentment. Silent killers of connection. We create false realities in our mind based off assumptions. When we believe our assumptions to be true, we create a false reality. Our beliefs drive our thoughts. Our thoughts bring up feelings. These three things drive us to act. Our action is most often a strategy, an insecure one, that makes us feel safe from abandonment and rejection. Because the threat of those things is terrifying! We self abandon all the time to ensure we remain connected and attached to others. This means that we are detaching from ourselves. When our identity is formed around limiting beliefs that create false realities, we find ourselves constantly in chaotic and dramatic situations. Choose change. Choose a return to self. Choose curiosity. Choose clarity and see what life starts to feel like. Embodiment means self attunement, alignment and congruency. Free from friction. It’s freedom and peace. Ready for change? DM “CHOICE” to learn more about your attachment style and why you show up in relationship like you do! #queerattachment #assumptions #resentment #lesbians #attachmentstyles #conflict #nonviolentcommunication #queercoach #wlw

Real people with real lives🙏🏻 These are not

Real people with real lives🙏🏻 These are not your favorite characters from an apocalyptic movie.
#prayersforflorida And someone get
@JoeSea off that boat so he can enjoy the boat he’s got coming! #hurricanemilton #lieutenantdan #kindnessmatters

Assumptions waste time and energy and create false

Assumptions waste time and energy and create false realities. #attachmentstyle #queertiktok #queerattachment

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