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Create fulfilling connections and build authentic relationships….

transform your chaotic relationship habits through mastering your attachment style.

Queer attachment is different. Between societal rejection, parental/family abandonment and religious trauma, relationships become heavy.

We are often left to self abandon to avoid the risk of rejection and not being loved. Return from self abandonment and cultivate self love that leads to healthy and satisfying relationships.

The future is yours to create when you connect back to YOURSELF.

I can express my feelings now without getting overly emotional. It just feels natural, manageable and normal. It’s fucking nice!”–Krista F. (6 week client)

Are you feeling like something is wrong with you? Like no matter what you do, you keep ending up in toxic relationships?

Here’s what the script looks like:

  • Fights that feel familiar and repair that is only momentary
  • Over-explaining and people pleasing,
  • Stonewalling, text bombing and ghosting.
  • Anxiety, resentment, sleepless nights and broken promises.

Patterns are hard to break free from because they’re deeply ingrained in your subconscious.

“I am not enough. I don’t matter. I can’t trust anyone. I can’t trust myself.”

Face your subconscious fears and create new healthy patterns that align with your goals. Experience personal transformation that leaves you feeling empowered and grounded.

Transform Your Insecure Attachment Strategies To SECURE!

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Coaching with Kyleigh

If your dream is a secure and authentic relationship, let’s get after it! The best part of being a coach is I’m not a therapist. This is different than talk therapy. You’ve got beautiful dreams and goals that are just waiting for you to be engaged in achieving. You are worthy. You have needs that need to be protected with boundaries so you can connect AND have emotional safety. As your coach, I bring the practice plan.

Looking for community?

Get connected! Kyleigh goes LIVE weekly to answer questions from members of this growing community of people seeking queer healing through connection.

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Hi, I’m Kyleigh Weathers.

I founded Queerly Attached on the principles of safe and secure connection. I’m here to teach you how to date and relate securely.

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What I’ve Been Saying: The Blog

Queerly Attached may be new, but I’ve been out here doing this work for almost 20 years. Let me tell you about it.

“Right person…wrong time?”

When I faced my crippling fear of "wasting time", I learned how wrong I was to view time as something I could possibly get wrong or waste. I realized what a gift time really is when we value it instead of judge it. Treat your present like a gift and watch how your life changes....

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A Different Heartbreak: The Pain of Self-Abandonment

We've all been there - heartbroken, feeling lost and alone, wondering how this person we loved could do us like this. But what about the other heartbreak that you may not have acknowledged yet? The heartbreak of self abandonment, when we betray our own hearts, minds, and souls. Self-abandonment is when we compromise our values,...

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Queerly Attached Quiz

Baggage, “me shit”, scars, triggers…words to describe the wounds and strategies you adopted to survive your attachment trauma. Attachment wounds create attachment behaviors and patterns. When your sense of emotional safety and security in connection feels threatened, your attachment strategies aren’t far behind.

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