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From chaos to
clarity….

transform yourself from insecure to secure.

Stuck in the perpetual dance of push/pull dynamics?

Sick of the drama, chaos and disconnect that seems to follow every conflict?

Suffering from the emotional whiplash of roller coaster relationships with the people you love?

Queer attachment IS different and our experience deserves focused healing.

Thing is, it’s not them…
it’s your attachment wounds.

Say goodbye to emotional exhaustion when you finally come to understand your attachment style.

Patterns are hard to break free from because they’re deeply ingrained in your subconscious. It makes sense you feel paralyzed, you are literally fighting yourself!

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Guided Coaching

If your dream is a secure, peaceful and authentic relationship, let’s get after it! You are worthy. Schedule a vibe check call to figure out the level of support you need!

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Collective Coaching

Collective coaching offers you a unique space to heal within, feel seen and understood while moving from insecure to securely attached. Join other queer community members who GET it.

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Community Happenings

Get involved by joining us at workshops, webinars, and events that foster growth and connection. Join us in creating a space for authentic relationships and self discovery.

Speed Friending info

Speed Friending

September 8 @ 2:00 PM – 4:00 PM

🙉Tired of going to the bar where it’s too loud to chat?
🙈Sick of the extroverts taking the spotlight?
🙊Uncomfortable initiating conversation?
🤫Ready to connect but not sure how without the trauma dumping?

What I’ve Been Saying…

Queerly Attached may be new, but I’ve been out here doing this work for almost 20 years. Let me tell you about it.

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“Right person…wrong time?”

When I faced my crippling fear of "wasting time", I learned how wrong I was to view time as something I could possibly get wrong or waste. I realized what a gift time really is when we value it instead of judge it. Treat your present like a gift and watch how your life changes....

A Different Heartbreak: The Pain of Self-Abandonment

We've all been there - heartbroken, feeling lost and alone, wondering how this person we loved could do us like this. But what about the other heartbreak that you may not have acknowledged yet? The heartbreak of self abandonment, when we betray our own hearts, minds, and souls. Self-abandonment is when we compromise our values,...

“The Steps to Secure”

Gain the upper hand over your subconscious. Change the name of the game.